Totally passable. very real. I have been living as a woman for several years. I don't have a special friend yet, but I am always looking. It is difficult to find a man who will totally understand and be 100% supportive. I hope that is you. To answer your question, which I get most often, YES from time to time I do "phone" but I am seeking a gentle lover on the phone. BTW:: My picture is less than a month old. I am very proud of my body. My real name is Kailaini. My friends call me Kai, pronounced kye.